Ok, so what is the deal??
Lingam is the Sanskrit word for the man’s privates. The main goal in the Lingam Massage (aka "edging") is ejaculatory control. Although a happy release is not the main focus, it is a rather wonderful and enjoyable side effect. With this type of a massage a variety of stokes and grips will be used to worship your Lingam and help you to expand your ability to receive pleasure. Over time and with practice, this type of massage can help improve your stamina and increase your ability to prolong sexual encounters. Learning to allow the Lingam to build up energy will make for a more intense release when the time does come.
Now for the closure of your ultimate body rub experience…The Lingam Tantra Massage. As I mentioned at the beginning of this blog, the main goal in The Lingam Massage is ejaculatory control. Although the Big O is not the main focus, it is a rather wonderful and enjoyable side effect. With this type of a massage a variety of stokes and grips will be used to worship your Lingam and help you to expand your ability to receive pleasure. Over time and with practice, this type of massage can help improve your stamina and increase your ability to prolong sexual encounters. Learning to allow the Lingam to build up energy will make for a more intense release when the time does come.
This portion of your body rub can take 5 minutes or more. Times vary with each individual and will depend on how well you can resist releasing and my ability to help you with that. Yes, I have techniques that can help you with this as I will explain in a minute. Most girls you find on BP want to rush you to this point of the rub and to rush you through it !! I will not! This part is as important as the hour or so that I spent stimulating and preparing the rest of your body for this portion of your session. No rushing through this, it will defeat the purpose. If we do this on a regular basis, your control will grow and this portion of your session will last longer and longer. After I describe this part type of massage, I want you to imagine you having this done for 10, 15 or 20 minutes OR MORE!! and you being able to hang in there!! That is your goal!!
Ok, back to what we are doing! This type of erogenous zone stimulation is beneficial to those with PE and ED. This type of massage builds up the energy in the Lingam and lets it subside and then build up again. (As mentioned before, it also improves your stamina). Many men have told me they suffer from PE and there is not a lot of options out there to treat this. Well, this type of tantra session helps train you to be in control again !!
During this stage, not only will the Lingam be massaged, but also the testicles, perineum (the area between the scrotum and anus) and the prostate (externally). This will open you to pleasures that you may not be familiar with.
Firstly, you will need to relax and enjoy the process of receiving. This is one of the main reasons you sought company from me. You are looking for attention and affection. It is about YOU!! Typically, men have been conditioned to believe that it is more manly to give in the bedroom, that to be a better sexual partner he must be “goal oriented.” Here I want you to be on the receiving end and not worry about how you NEED to perform.
I will begin with you laying on your back. I will place a pillow under your head so that you can watch as I proceed with the stage of your body rub. I will have you spread your legs apart with the knees slightly bent. I will pour some oil on the shaft of the Lingam and will gently begin rubbing your thighs, pelvic area and the testicles. I know this is a sensitive area, so my touch will be firm but gentle.
I will watch for your cues here and encourage you to tell me what is just right for you. Some men can't stand to have their testicles touched at all, while others enjoy stronger handling. I will start gently and slowly add pressure. If you are sensitive, breathe and bear through it as the sensitivity should pass as I continue to rub the area.
As I am doing this, I want you to breathe deeply and relax. Good breathing helps to get you into a deeper state of relaxation.
Finally, I will place my hand on your Lingam. As I massage the shaft, I will gently squeeze the Lingam at the base with my right hand, and pull up, sliding completely off. Then do the same with my left hand—squeezing the Lingam at the base, and pulling up, sliding completely off. Then do this again with my right, then my left, and so on. After a while, I will change directions—slide alternating hands from the top down to the base. Then, I will take the Lingam between both my hands and rub my hands quickly back and forth, as if I were starting a fire. I will hold the Lingam by the head and gently shake it back and forth. I will thoroughly massage the head by cupping it in my palm and turning my wrist, making a "juicing" motion (as if I were juicing an orange).
I will then move from the Lingam to the testicles to the perineum (the place between the scrotum and the anus) and back again, noting your responses as I proceed. My massage of the perineum is a simple and firm downward rubbing to stimulate the area.
If, at any point, I see or feel that you are close to releasing, I have several techniques to help delay that moment.
I will slow my movements to reduce stimulation and let you cool down before beginning again. If you are very close but not past the "point of no return" I will delay your releasing by squeezing the tip of your Lingam between my thumb and forefinger. I will squeeze firmly and hold it for about thirty seconds. I will remind you to take deep breaths and work thru the moment.
Another way for me to delay your release is moving to the sacred spot. I will decrease stimulation on the Lingam and increase stimulation on the sacred spot, which should help decrease the urge to release.
If you and I can hold back your release at least six times, a tremendous amount of sexual energy will be stored so that when it comes time to release it will probably be much more intense than usual. Remember to take deep breaths even as you release.
Please lay there a minute as I go get some warm wash cloths for you.
Here is a Link to a Video of a Lingam Massage, if you need to get a visual of what I have just described.